For years children have exclaimed with great enthusiasm...
💫"Science is so much fun!"
💫"We played the most awesome math game ever!"
💫"Art is my favorite subject!"
💫"I could read for hours!"
💫"Last week we visited a Civil War reenactment. It was so cool!"
And, during those same years, I have patiently and lovingly listened to students complain about writing. Yep. Take any of those sentences above and ask a child to "WRITE ABOUT THE EXPERIENCE" and watch the joyful mood dissolve before your eyes.
An aversion for writing is not only common; it's normal. And, for many reasons.
Here. See for yourself.
Which of these 5 MOST COMMON complaints have you heard from your child OR said as a child OR as an adult?
Yet, we all know the value and importance associated with writing well in today's society.
QUESTION: How do we do that if our child professes on a daily basis that she absolutely hates it?
#1 - Do NOT lose hope! If the challenges of parenting were simple and mild, alcohol would not have been bottled, boxed, and mass produced.
All kidding aside, the job IS a tough one, but the possibilities for growth are enormous. Believe that!
#2 - Realize that everything begins with OUR THOUGHTS.
Your child's thoughts about writing matter and so do yours. In this 10 minute video, you can learn just how this process works and what you can do to create positive, productive attitudes in your home.
#3 - Accept that writing is a process. For most, it isn't a quick, easy undertaking. And that is A-OK. Just breathe.
Some of my most impressive accomplishments were once the hardest, scariest, daunting things I had ever done. You, too?
Parents, be patient and confident. Start with an optimistic attitude and daily, positive thoughts. Let it take some time because it will.
And, of course, you always have the option of letting someone else take care of those writing lessons and accountability on your behalf. That's what I LOVE to do. I can help.
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Just Write On!
What a title! Right?
How does that POST TITLE make you feel?
⇛A little defensive?
⇛A bit too personal?
⇛Eager to protest?
And, how does it make me sound - as the writer?
As the month is coming to a close, we are wrapping up our ARGUMENTATIVE WRITING COURSE.
My students are amazing. Perhaps I am biased. I'm okay with that accusation.
Indeed, though, their essays are quite impressive. And this generation gives me great hope for our global well being. These are bright, hard-working, eager-to-learn children.
This month we practiced strengthening our more formal, academic voices.
That meant leaving the personal pronouns out of things. Sounds relatively easy, right?
Not so much.
However, it is easy enough for us to teach our children how to make a few subtle and simple changes. These suggestions can take any child's writing to a whole new level.
Let me share an example.
This talented and bright student decided to take on the topic of young children and their cellphone use. She claims that the negative impacts of cellphone use outweigh the good. She has some excellent evidence to support her claim.
And, yet, it is not as convincing as it could be. Why?
Well, it sounds too personal and informal. Taking the time to teach this young writer a few simple strategies made all the difference.
What you are about to read is her closing paragraph. She did a fantastic job of restating her thesis. She threw in the opposing viewpoint. As well, she has a clear call to action. That is ALL wonderful! And, yet, we made it even better by ditching those personal pronouns.
I really hope that you are reconsidering a cellphone for your child for the sake of development, friendship, and learning. Yes, there are a few okay reasons, but you can see unpleasant reasons outweigh the good ones. You should think twice before making this expensive investment.
It is time to reconsider purchasing cellphones for young children. A child's development, social skills, and learning are all negatively affected. There are benefits linked to cellphone use, but for children, those are outweighed by the many unpleasant ones. Think twice before making such an expensive investment for any young child.
Are you able to hear AND feel the difference between these two paragraphs?
The first paragraph feels more informal, directly personal - even accusatory!
The second paragraph invites the reader to agree with the writer and join the team.
In an argumentative writing piece the goal is to bring the reader to our side of the argument. If we put our reader on the defense, we may lose that opportunity.
So, how might you take this writing tip and place it in your lesson plans this week?
Need some ideas?
Write On! That is exactly what I offer.
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Isn't that great?! I love it.
And, if you need recipe ideas, you must check it out.
Lately, I've had a growing interest in learning about the health benefits related to herbs and spices.
Spices have been a hot commodity for centuries. Do you recall learning about that? Think back. We're talking World History class, my friends. Yep, there was a time when spices were more valuable than GOLD!
Today we take cinnamon, clove, and even black pepper for granted, but at one time only the very wealthy enjoyed such luxuries as those.
This weekend I read an interesting article on the 5 Best Health Boosting Spices for Beginners.
Let me summarize it for you.
The five they discuss in the article include: (1) cardamom, (2) turmeric, (3) cinnamon, (4) paprika, and (5) cumin.
As well, some of the health benefits mentioned - certainly not all - include:
CARDAMOM - anti-oxidant, lowers blood pressure, anti-inflammatory & helps with digestion
TURMERIC - pain relief, improvement in liver function, & helps with arthritis
CINNAMON - lowers blood sugar & helps cut the risk of heart disease
PAPRIKA - induces sleep, speeds the healing of wounds, & can prevent hair loss
CUMIN - a rich source of iron, boosts immunity, & increases lactation
Besides being beneficially healthful, spices are all-natural and can expand the palates of young children. If that isn't enough, they can be so DELICIOUS!
Let's get cookin', mommas!
While I travel down road of knowledge, I want to share what I am learning.
It sure would be SPICE - I mean NICE - to hear what you know, too!
WHAT I'M MAKING THIS WEEK: TURMERIC CHICKEN ZOODLE SOUP
I'm adding a comment box below, so I truly hope you enlighten us with what you know! We would all benefit.
There's no thyme like the present.
Whether this is your first, third, or tenth year homeschooling, the "mom" scenarios are so similar to one another.
>>>Let me imagine your thinking while stepping into your size eight shoes today as the new school year rapidly approaches.
Your mind can’t stop thinking! You’re perusing Pinterest for ideas. You are following your favorite homeschool blogger. Dang. She is already planned out for the entire year (insert profanity of choice). You have questions for your co-op group. You are asking other homeschool veterans their opinions.
Perhaps, you are even farther along. Maybe…
But, what about WRITING? That can be a challenge, right? The questions begin to multiply like some bizarre common core math problem.
I get it! You MUST know these things but how?!
Well, I can tell you, getting into the WRITE state-of-mind is priceless. And, that comes from knowing - 100% - that your child is getting the best, most complete, challenging yet fun academic exposure and instruction!
You need that. Your child needs that, too.
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Imagine this - if you dare. At the end of any semester, or even worse, an entire school year, you face the realization that you never raised the writing-bar for your child. The writing you expected was minimal and unstructured. The feedback you gave your child consisted of “nice job, good work.” Let me tell you, it would feel terrible to think you lost any of your child’s academic potential in any month, let alone an entire semester or year. And, yet, we all worry about that. Do you think you are alone in your feelings? You are not.
Back in 2005, after a dozen years in the classroom, I began supporting parents who wanted to homeschool their children. They did not want to go into home-education blindly, and the resources and support my charter school provided gave them all the tools and confidence they needed.
Yet, they struggled with knowing how to “grade” their child’s writing. Believe me, assessing your own child's writing ability is such a personal challenge! #truth
I knew then that I wanted to help solve this problem. At the time, I heard about some online teaching platforms, and our school was happy to try them out. My very first online writing class ended up with a waiting list! Yes, the demand was there. Parents loved knowing they could learn alongside their child while being supported and encouraged by an experienced, credentialed teacher (and homeschool mom).
Sure, I provided valuable materials and lessons, but the personable coaching and teaching made both students and parents feel successful. They loved the community that online education fostered.
Every month, we tackled one new writing style.
Each week, they were assigned writing, reading, and research tasks to complete.
And, by the end of the month, a quality piece of writing stretched out before our eyes.
It sounds simple, right? Well, it is. Don’t be fooled though. That does not mean it is easy. It takes work like anything else.
The best part of what I do, for me, is witnessing the effectiveness of my writing classes. Students who once hated writing LOVE writing. Okay, that is a complete and utter lie. Very few have gone from one spectrum to the other. I am not a miracle worker, nor do I claim to be one.
What they have said is, “Writing isn’t as bad as I used to think it was.”
And, HEY! The ones who DO like (or even love) writing from the start soar to whole new heights.
Parents thank me on a regular basis for the guidance and enthusiasm I offer them and their children. Truly, truly, truly, it is MY pleasure. Teaching moms and students to embrace writing IS my passion. There is so much to learn and share!
Are you ready to get into the WRITE state-of-mind? Would you and your child thrive with my support and encouragement for the 2018-19 school year? Would you like ME to write out all of your monthly writing lesson plans and lead classes for you?
Think about it. What could you do with that extra time NOT having to teach writing? And, if your child can work independently, well, I just saved you even MORE time. My program is step-by-step, and students as young as fourth grade have completed it independently.
We should be friends, right?!
My first month of classes will begin September 4th, and I need to get everyone signed up and registered in August. You have until August 29, 2018, to save your spot. Head on over to my website to see more details on the classes I will be offering. I am BEYOND excited for this next year, and I can’t wait to work with you and your child. Let’s do this.
I can save you a spot for now; one for your friend, too! More details will be coming soon.
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Want to know how to plan simple and successful writing lessons?
There are THREE mindsets I want you to consider as you plan each month's writing lessons this school year.
>> Mindsets that relieve pressure.
>> Mindsets that build your teaching confidence.
>> Mindsets that produce results.
When you create writing lessons for your child that you are proud of, you will watch your child soar to new heights.
But HOW do you do that?
Do you know how much writing is enough?
Is there something credentialed teachers know that you don't know?
Or, what are the crucial steps your child must complete to write well?
Let's get started so you can begin planning your BEST lessons. And, hey, if you prefer to watch this on video instead, here you go!
Watch it here.
Focus on QUALITY over QUANTITY.
Some parents think their children should construct full paragraphs each and every day to improve writing abilities. In my experience, that is the perfect recipe for burn-out. Most students quickly lose interest and produce poor quality paragraphs even though they may have 15 to 20 paragraphs by the end of the month. Worse yet, they detest writing altogether because it has become a tiresome chore.
A daily journal entry is a wonderful idea, but those are hopefully less structured, more expressive, and free-flowing.
Instead of expecting multiple paragraph essays each week, my recommendation is to fully focus on ONE style of writing per month and provide detailed direct instruction while exploring and practicing all parts of the complete writing process.
By the end of each month, you have developed a quality writing piece for your child's writing portfolio. By the end of a school year, you will have seven or eight quality pieces. Best of all, your child's confidence and attitude toward writing will be at a whole new level!
Know Your Stuff
Have you ever wondered what credentialed teachers know that you don't know as a homeschooling parent? Well, nothing that you can't learn yourself. The best teachers pay attention to changes in standards and grade level expectations. You can do that, too.
Familiarize yourself with the core standards expected of students. There are three basic styles: argumentative, explanatory, narrative. You can read all about them - and the many subcategories - at www.corestandards.org.
Taking the time to explore and learn your child's grade-level educational standards will build a confidence within you that you didn't know you had! How great would that feel?
Follow my FOUR WEEK WRITING PLAN.
Over the years, I have learned the value of organization and predictability. This process not only makes my life simpler but students demonstrate greater success.
Each month, my writing courses and styles change, but the process remains the same.
WEEK 1: Students gather information on their topic/style of writing. They read and take notes on any necessary materials. This is the week that brainstorming and outlining take place.
WEEK 2: It's SLOPPY COPY week! This is the time for students to move from bullet points to full-blown sentences and paragraphs.
WEEK 3: Revision and Editing week arrives! These two steps are critically important. Students learn and grow the most during this week when these strategies are done well.
WEEK 4: Time to polish and publish! At this point, students should have an audience equipped to give valuable and authentic feedback.
There you have it! Now it's your turn.
>>Begin working on your quality (not quantity) writing lessons.
>>Study up and learn first what is expected of your child this year.
>>Finally, break your lessons into four-week segments.
Are you wondering if I could just do this for you instead? Well, the answer is "YES!" - and I'd love to help!
Click on over to writeonwebb.com. You will see the courses I offer and the months they are taught LIVE and ONLINE. Choose one, four, or MORE!
And, if you receive Educational Funds to use toward academic material through your school, let me know. I am a proud vendor for many wonderful Charter Schools. If yours is not on my list yet, we can change that.
Together, we can make this your best year yet, and that is a SUPER mindset with which to start.
The predictable and well-oiled routines of a typical school day fall to the wayside once summer hits. That’s a good thing, right?
We can’t all enjoy a summer trip to the Hamptons or travel abroad for cultural education opportunities. And, looking at everyone’s picture-perfect Instagram posts of Disneyland-Days and Concerts-in-the-Park Nights can create some summertime blues. Been there. Done that.
For many moms, the lack of routine can leave them feeling underwhelmed. In fact, did you know, being out of routine can create a depression in people? So, if you have been wondering what is wrong with you - fear not!
SOLUTION: Getting outdoors, connecting with others, and setting up a lighter, but regular, routine may help.
Well, that and ICE CREAM!
A predictable start to a typical summer in my home in 2003, 2010, and 2015.
Eleven Year Old Boy: "I hate reading."
Frustrated Mother: "That's too bad. It is summertime, and you WILL read a book for fun!"
Maybe you can relate.
From a very young age, all of my boys loved having stories read to them; however, independent reading - purely for enjoyment - never blossomed in my home. And, THAT drove me crazy. Books of all kinds bring me immeasurable joy. I still don't get it.
If this sounds like your family, I feel your pain. And, better yet, I have a solution. For us, since I could never instill the individualistic love of literature, our best-enjoyed novels were ones we shared and read as a family. For us, this was much like a Book Club. And, there are many reasons Book Clubs are successful.
"Unexpected kindness is the most powerful, least costly, and underrated agent of human change." ~Bob Kerrey
According to Webster's Dictionary, kindness is a noun: a person, place, or thing. However, Moms, I think we would all agree it is most powerful when it becomes a common, household VERB! So, how can we increase empathy and compassion in our children? A few ideas come to mind.
Your child learned to write a compelling argumentative essay. He included a persuasive counterargument. In only 30 minutes, his revised paper improved. Finally, he checked all his grammar and mechanics. Great! But how did he do?
Sometimes, as a homeschool mom, we are left wondering if our child's final writing product is good enough. We certainly do not want to criticize his hard work and diligent effort. Considering the fact that he has never worked this hard also tugs at our heartstrings. What is a mom to do?
Well, for me, finding Grammarly.com made a world of difference. Let me tell you why.
#1. Grammarly is easy, so easy to use! Who does not want a little easy in her life? And, did I mention it is FREE?! Grammarly has a free online text editor. Derek learned to copy and cut his typed text and insert it into the Grammarly text editor. With the click of a button, his whole story or essay quickly scanned for grammar and spelling errors. Not only did Grammarly detect the errors, but the program explained the mistakes as well. Also for free is a "Browser Extension" which flags any written errors in emails I send or posts I make on Facebook or Twitter. Quite quickly, Derek and I both fell in love with this writing enhancement platform.
There is a premium edition as well. Watch for the sale prices, and you will get a steal of a deal! With premium, it gets even better with over 400 types of grammar, mechanic, spelling, wordiness, and style checks. Plus, Grammarly will also provide suggestions to improve the writing, and it will detect plagiarism! As a writing teacher, all of these bonus features make it worth every penny!
#2. Grammarly's "eyes" do not tire like mine! After a long day or week, it can be exhausting both mentally and physically to spend time searching through a student's writing assignment and combing over it three to four times making sure to catch all the mistakes. It is enough to get a girl to gripe! But, Grammarly does not complain as I do. Nope. Grammarly gets the job done faster and more efficiently.
#3. Using Grammarly regularly truly improves both students and parents English grammar. Imagine that! This program is not only an outstanding tool but a teacher, too. There have been many times I have read the corrections or suggestions on a student's paper and thought, "What a great way to explain that!" It is no surprise to me to read that Grammarly is the #1 Rated Grammar Checking Tool according to Forbes. Millions of students and professionals now use the software. As well, it has been proofreading for a decade which makes it a trusted product.
Now that I have my own writing business up and running, I am in contact with even more homeschooling parents. After telling another large group of moms about my favorite online editor, I realized Grammarly and I should become partners. So, I reached out to Grammarly and applied to join their affiliate program. Afterall, I am one of their biggest fans. Here is the best part - they said, "YES!"
Now you need to decide if Grammarly is right for you. Do you want an easy fix to your busy grading and scoring schedule? Would you like someone else to give grammatical and structural feedback to improve your child's writing ability? Is it possible that you, too, could grow and learn along the way? Well, if you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then Grammarly is worth your time. So, give it a try and let me know what you think. And, if you are at all like me, you are wondering, "Did she use the online text editor to proofread this blog post?" You bet I did!
Author: Melissa Webb
CA Credentialed Teacher